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You Have Been Blaming the Wrong Person

You Have Been Blaming the Wrong Personby: Stephen Scott JohnsonPublished on: 18/08/2026

The argument you keep having with the same person has two authors. How two Field States meet and escalate each other, the research on bodies falling into step during conflict, and why the steadiest nervous system in the room sets the weather.

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You Have Been Blaming the Wrong Person